I guess it’s been a minute since I’ve taken the time to write.
We’re still doing our thing but it looks so very different now. Life has thrown some curveballs & adjusting to them has been quite the challenge.
Over the summer Sir’s adult daughter moved in with us. I am an only child with no kids. I’m not used to sharing my space. I’m not used to having to think about what I wear when I leave the bedroom. And sometimes the way she speaks to Him irritates me. We’re learning to deal with one another though and most days I genuinely enjoy her company.
I’m still learning how to serve Him properly with her in the house. She noticed early on that I attend to all of His needs. She’s not used to it. This younger generation doesn’t understand what it means to take care of your man. I try to explain to her that I grew up in a time where men went to work and women took care of them when they got home. I can’t justify calling Him “Sir” in front of her and it bothers me that I don’t get to address Him that way.
We went to our first munch a couple months ago but life is crazy and we haven’t been back. We’re trying to find some friends in the lifestyle. In a different lifetime I attended lots of lifestyle parties and it was so much fun. I got to be me. I think Sir would enjoy going. Some day, when our house is built, I hope we’ll get to host parties.
I feel like this post is is kind of all over the place, it doesn’t have a whole lot of direction, yet I have so much to talk about. I really want to start showing up here a little more often, I think that writing is very helpful and it is a way to keep my mind in a place of service. I can tell that I need to refocus. Maybe I can start with a goal of just 1 post a week… Anything more would be a bonus. We’ll see, soon, I hope.