I seem to go back and forth in struggling with not showing any signs of being owned. I know that I am owned and most days that’s enough, but every now and then I wish for something tangible that the rest of the world can see to know I’m owned. Not that anyone would recognize… Continue reading Signs of Ownership
This is a subject that has been weighing heavily on my mind recently. We are not getting any younger and life is so precious when you are happy. Mortality is something I never thought about when I was married. Maybe it’s because in my mind I’ve always seen marriage as forever. Not being particularly happy… Continue reading Mortality
It isn’t every day you get to talk a beautiful girl through what to wear on a date with your man. Society just isn’t okay with that. Thankfully in Sir’s house we don’t live by society’s rules. He had a date with the girl we’ve been talking to for a while. She and I have… Continue reading The dating game
… of concerns that are not mine. That’s a tough one. For many years I was in a relationship where things were very equal. Everything was my concern. Maybe even more so than his. That was a lifetime long long ago. A week or so ago I was told to do something that my knee… Continue reading Letting go
A few years ago I stopped making resolutions. Not sure that resolutions are all that different from goals but in my mind goals seem a little less stressful and a lot more attainable. This year I only have one goal and that is to make an effort to write in my blog at least once… Continue reading Goals
When I was first learning about the BDSM lifestyle, many years ago, I envisioned training as something that happened in sessions. There would be a definitive beginning and end of each session. Most likely there would be instruction, something specific would be taught, perhaps a skill. My ideas about training have morphed dramatically since those… Continue reading Training
I has it. Big time. This is a new word for me but not a new feeling. A couple months ago Sir and I attended a poly workshop and this was one of the words they went over. compersion. Noun. (uncountable) The feeling of joy associated with seeing a loved one love another; contrasted with… Continue reading Compersion
